meet ABIGAIL
I specialize in helping you transform the way you experience love in your relationships, shake off stagnant energy from aging, divorce, death and grief, and reclaim your core sexual authenticity. Rediscover your whole self, escape negative patterning, and renegotiate the way you choose to feel.
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Phone 775.391.0549
Email abigail@sirensaint.com
CERTIFIED SEX, LOVE & RELATIONSHIP COACH
The Tantric approach to sex, love and relationships employed by the VITA Institute was a good match with Abigail’s own outlook, so it was a quick decision to earn their advanced professional certification.
Backed by modern science and empowered by ancient wisdom, VITA helps clients resolve their deepest wounds, and step into their most empowered selves using holistic tools like breathwork, pleasure practices, trauma healing, meditation, energy work, sounding, and movement.
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ADVOCACY AND SUPPORT
Abigail has her BA in psychology with an emphasis on human sexuality from UC Berkeley. She has worked in the field of sexual health education, harm reduction counseling, outreach, and advocacy for almost 20 years.
Much of her work has focused on persons living with HIV/AIDS/HEP and minority communities such as LGBTQIA2+ individuals, sex workers, and persons struggling with alcohol and drugs. Her dedication in this field has been influential in changing several Nevada & California state laws directly impacting the freedom and quality of life for persons living with addiction, identifying as transgender, and being involved in the sex industry.
Her passion for this work has been fueled by her own background working in the adult entertainment field as a performer and business owner for over 20 years. She has been both a content creator and model for adult photo and film projects, as well as the owner of an independent west coast female dancer-owned and -operated strip tease entertainment agency that prided itself on cultivating equitable and ethical work opportunities for its dancers. She has been a live cam, wrestling, kink, and fetish model and spent several years working for the infamous Lusty Lady peep show theater. Abigail has also produced and performed burlesque theater revues at the Redlight Hotel, which she co-owned in Lake Tahoe. She has taught numerous workshops celebrating sexual expression and facilitating beautiful beings while she helped them learn the fine art of strip tease.
photo by @tc3imagery
SPIRITUAL SIDE
Abigail has been exploring Buddhism since 2007 when she started listening to Dharma talks with the Zen and Recovery meetings at the San Francisco Zen Center.
Since then; she has trekked around the small Buddhist country of Bhutan (dubbed the happiest country in the world) enriching her spiritual knowledge, received guidance from a famous Central American hypnotist & spiritualist, and become a humble student and now teacher of tantra spiritual philosophy and healing with the Layla Martin Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality.
Her favorite group to regularly practice meditation and receive dharma wisdom from is Mountain Om Sangha, located in the small mountain town of Leavenworth, Washington.
“I specialize in helping the spiritually resistant, the rebellious at heart and those persons deliciously defiant.”
THEN AND NOW
She began her coaching career as a scholar athlete and nationally ranked long distance runner and from a young age learned to cultivate pride and morale in her teammates, which earned her a Congressional Appointment to the West Point Military Academy in New York for undergraduate school. Although the constraints of this college were too confining for Abigail, she has always had a passion for being incredibly physical and found nature to be her true church. She loves the company of animals, the sun, wind, trees and especially the water and her coaching incorporates the use of these elements, as well as luscious and rich fantasy descriptions. She is a prolific poet, both of the erotic and natural world.
The way she incorporates breath, movement, and shifting energy through her coaching utilizes a blend of dance and theater as well as yogic and martial arts traditions. She has a flair for the dramatic, with big style and inventiveness when it comes to fashion and freedom of expression.
photo by @tc3imagery
She believes that the work she does with her clients can help them move toward a place of their highest alignment and their most genuine sexual authenticity when they are able to reconnect to their full range of inner identities; the bold, the beautiful, the untamed and sometimes depraved, as well as the sweet and the shy, or incredibly sexy and sassy. She specializes in helping you make peace with all these parts of yourself. This allows you to stop having an internal war with yourself, which frees your energy up for more sexual turn on, deeper relationships and incredibly delicious pleasure!
“I’m up for anything. That’s my spiritual center.”
— Abigail Polus